You cannot change him. You can only change your half of the dance. And when you stop stepping on his toes by trying to lead, he might just start to lead beautifully.
We live in an era of “equality” and “boundaries.” We are taught that the path to a happy marriage is 50/50 chores, 50/50 decision-making, and 50/50 emotional labor. If he isn’t meeting you at the door with a spreadsheet of his contributions, he’s failing. the empowered wife pdf
The Counterintuitive Truth About Love (That No One Wants to Hear) You cannot change him